This is my most favourite poem so I thought I should share it.
Look Up
By Gary Turk
I have 422 friends, yet I am lonely,
I speak to all of them everyday, yet none of them really know me.
The problem I have sits in the spaces between,
Looking into there eyes or a name on a screen.
I took a step back and opened my eyes,
I looked around and realised,
This media we call social is anything but,
When we open our computers, it’s the doors we shut.
All this technology,
It’s just an illusion.
Community, conpanionship, a sense of inclusion.
But when you step away from this device of delusion,
You awake to see a world of confusion.
A world where we’re slaves to the technology we’ve mastered,
Where information gets sold by some rich greedy master.
A world of self-interest, self-image, self-promotion,
Where we share our best bits but leave out the emotion.
Where we’re at our most happy with an experience we share,
But is it the same when no one is there?
Be there for your friends and they’ll be there too,
But no one will if a group message will do.
We edit and exaggerate, crave adulation.
We pretend not to notice the social isolation.
We put our words into order untill our lives are glistening,
We’re not even sure if anyone is listening.
Being alone isn’t the problem, let me just emphasise,
If you read a book, paint a picture or do some excersise.
You’re being productive, you’re being present, not reserved or reclused,
You’re being attentive and awake putting your time to good use.
So when you’re in public and you start to feel alone,
Put your hands behind your head,
Step away from the phone.
You don’t need to stare at your menu or at your contact list,
Just talk to one another, learn to co-exist.
I can’t stand to hear the silence of a busy commuter train,
When no one wants to talk for the fear of looking insane.
We’re becoming unsocial, it no longer satisfies,
To engage with one another and look into there eyes.
We’re surrounded by children, who since they were born,
Have watched us living like robots, and think it’s a norm.
It’s least likely you’ll win worlds best Dad if you can’t entertain a child without using an IPad.
When I was a kid, I’d never be home,
I’d be out with my friends on our bikes we’d roam,
I’d were holes in my trainers and graze up my knees,
Or build our own clubhouse high up in the trees.
So look up from your phone, shut down that display,
We have a finite existence,
A set number of days.
Don’t waste your life getting caught in the net,
Because when the end comes nothings worse then regret.
I am guilty too of being apart of this machine,
This digital world where we’re heard but not seen,
Where we type as we talk and we read as we chat,
Where we spend hours together,
Without making eye-contact.
So don’t give into a life where you follow the hype,
Give people your love, and not your “like”.
Disconnect from the need to be heard and defined.
Go out into the world, leave distractions behind.
So look up from your phone, shut down that display,
Go out into the world,
Live life the real way.